Unconditional Love is "Healing-The-World" Medicine.

Be Not Deceived

When Michael "The Dancing" Jackson, of blessed memory, sang Healing The World, it moved the earth to a corner of everyone hoping for better days, even moving forward into the unforeseeable future. The campaign quickly dropped and was left to rot in the headquarters of dumpsters soon after his demise, and we still sit back, looking at the terrible shape and state the world has been in for the past decades, and wonder when all shall be well.

Many have given up hopes, and those still strung up the most on uncertainty, ran into switching religious denominations for their own safety and protection, for fear of being left alone should this present state of the world truly be the beginning of the end. I'm afraid it's the holocaust!

Indeed the ignorance we exhibit as people, despite claiming otherwise, with vain knowledge and purported wisdom, it is sad how are bent on destroying this world, which is gradually dying to support our sustenance. The greed to acquire as much possessions and wealth as we can for ourselves at the expense of the very life we have limited time span to live, is grossing to a point of incurable epidemic, which will soon spell our own doom, before the rapture, if and when it is actually going to happen.

Little things do matter in life. A lot! When we give or show love, care, concern, affection, acceptance, to those who do not look exactly, or even nearly the same, like ourselves, the grand machinery to churn a sustainable life, back into the world, begins. Often, it all comes down to money as and whenever the subject of 'making the world a better place for all' comes up for discussion, with little or no regards to the fact that people may have price tag on themselves but certain things, the minutest of them all, are priceless, something even quadrillions of money cannot afford.

Majority of the human race may have switched to the culture of getting married for money and fame, but just like lust is activated a decoy to love, most of such unions never lived to see the last rays of the setting sun, on the very days of solemnization. Anything real rarely ever fades. The emotional activation of insanity, where personal feelings are hardly ever explained, a phenomenon we ignorantly refer to as love, with so much pride, was never created. It just happened and the least chance we give it to breath free within us, the best our chances of living to see a peaceful demise of our own. The hypocrisy is just too much and it is no longer pretty to see what monsters we have made ourselves towards one another.

Marriage is a setup to breed and groom family, an institution capable of transforming clueless amateurs into respectable individuals, a successful training of which qualifies a person the title of a parent, mother and father, in a given society. Being married may have been misconstrued to be one-sided, but all, and any, misunderstanding was, and still is, to protect the moral decency it ensures between the couples.

This is very vital because couples now have the go-ahead to breed responsible offspring, the right upbringing of which has the probability to make or break the very society that grants this title in the first place. This is why giving birth is not enough to what qualifies an individual the title of a parent. Undertaking the burden of the responsibilities of ensuring that children do not end up liabilities is.

When in love, we give any and everything for the "Love" that we do not see. We only alert our senses, the mental readiness, that we do "love" this or that person, and that they love us much the same or more, without any physical characteristics to point this assurance to; but just a state of assumption for self-comfort.

But why is it nearly IMPOSSIBLE for us all to TRUST people, especially those with whom we share intimacy? Just like love, there are no pointers to when to actually "trust" people or not, but why do we always give conditions, the satisfaction of which, we only accept to trust back?

If I ask you to trust me, there is no way you can guarantee 100% that I am worthy of the same trust, just like when someone tells you they love you and can't really demonstrate to your satisfaction that they truly do...and why does anybody have to give reasons for loving someone, by the way? If we have to give reasons, demonstrations and explanations for loving one another, how does that explain love as unconditional?

Expression of love and trust becomes artificial the moment you expect reasons why a partner says or feels they love you and asks that you trust them. The minute you expect reasons, demonstrations and proves of love verbally expressed, the person, in desperate need to have you convinced, would resort to giving you a "make-believe", which is how destruction of your relationship empire begins at the very foundations.

On the flip, those who just say the words and have no idea what it actually entails, should just shut their boreholes, and let us hear something nice from afar. I think the least we start trusting ourselves that we can love and trust freely, without really expecting anything in return, on our own terms of engagement, the better off it shall be for all our human relationships out there.

The quintessence of this is not limited to just our domestic relationships and commitments, but, to a greater expanse, it has the autonomous power to healing the world of the hate, jealousy and envy that are grossing to our annihilation, soon if care is not taken.

Life operates on the principle of "garbage in garbage out", in that whatever you put into the world would gather momentum when returning to you, which how we feel the pain when it hits the hardest. We often play the victims to the cruelty of others, when we are genuinely nice to some people, only for them to disappoint us in the last minute. We snooze into depression and go hidden and lost to ourselves when we should be doing a thorough check of the things we must have done to others in the distant or the immediate past.

If you sow love and affection, understanding and wholeheartedness, into the world, no matter how ill people may treat you, you tend to enjoy much more love, respect and acceptance even to a total dismay of those who physically hurt you.

Some things are painfully hard to explain but not impossible when we let ourselves go, and allow nature to man-handle those who do not really appreciate the fact that we are also included in the number of those who deserve to breath the free gift of nature, something no one man can claim ownership of.

On the whole, all I truly mean to say with this post is to encourage each one of us, to put more love, affection, compassion, acceptance of one another without conditions, because the phenomena responsible for our very existence has the final and autonomous say about the way we live our lives here, for the duration until the hearse come out.

Peace.