Dress Properly To Showcase Your Beauty, Not Your Nudity.

Be Not Deceived

Hello ladies, let's get talking. I am not a relationship expert but I believe a word or two will set the records straight, and you won't even have to pay any professional to hear it.
Your pastors may not have the courage to tell you because they needs the numbers for the church to boost the collections.

A woman's magic is her beauty, which attracts thieves sooner than gold (according to Shakespeare's 'As You Like It'), and an outward attraction is formed by the way you dress. These are the basics to what attracts a man and, not wearing anything at all, makes things way easier because it tells men who you actually are, whether or not they are right about you, because no man is willing to go in for a woman whose pride is out there for public viewing. AND any man going in for such a woman is only looking for some quickie. You may not even get to see where he lives.

The recent style of fashion in vogue which I want to talk about is the plastic braziers majority of ladies are using to heap or pump their goods up and out. It's all nice and attractive and makes you look gorgeous when you step out but here is the downside to it all.

A man, when attracted to you, always looks to see that one thing that got him attracted to you, and he is not coming for that one thing alone but with hopes of unraveling more of the things morals and virtues did not permit you to publicly display. The least you can do is try to keep the first charm that got him entrapped with you in the first place and repackage it to be able to keep your man, if he is worth keeping. 

I don't want to lose sight of my take on the pumping up of breasts style of fashion with tinier braziers, being the new girl on the block. When a man is after you, for instance, after seeing how nicely you pumped your milk factories, which is by itself a deception, and he is ready and willing to spend his all to keep you and the factory, who do you think has everything to lose when, after the braziers are gone, and the once gyrated pointed-looking firm "buttons" on your twins, now display an overly low self-esteem saggy melons?

You would expect him to accept you the way you are and love you for the person you are, but you have not displayed who you are and the things you are made of in the first place, so it is hard for someone else to accept you for who you were not confident enough to display to the world.

A lot of ladies are sprawling in this ignorance of using body lotions which bleach their skins, hoping and thinking they will be conspicuous among their peers, and so the men would come after them more. Most of them do not even take the time to check the long time effects of that habit, how some old ladies now wear their burnt complexion beneath long 'jallabias' to cover up their entire body and those who were not so fortunate and got their faces burnt, go about town staring at everyone's faces looking for public sympathy.

Life, without a doubt, is about making choices and all these choices come with consequence. The moral is that we must all be ready to live with the consequences of the choices we make in life, before we make the decisions we have to make.

Therefore, what you decide on now, will not just roll away like that, no matter how long it takes. Most times, you would even forget that you made such a choice, which is why the churches have become our last resort, where we rush into seeking unnatural supernatural miracles that the Bible spends eternity to find a verse for, and these confident tricksters calling themselves all sorts of names lately, use the opportunity and take advantage of most of y'all, just because you are now desperate and have no other choice left to make, forgetting that even deciding to give in to the demands of these pastors is also a choice by itself, for which you must pay the consequences as and when they come knocking on your doors.

Before I hang this long speech loose here, my advice to you, the younger generation of girls, is that be confident in who you are and dress properly to reflect your true beauty. I often say that there is beauty in every girl, lady or woman whatever your class. You just have to find it yourself and make someone else see and appreciate you. Never make another person be the reason for your happiness, else you will be relinquishing your power to that person to define you by a snap of their fingers, and you may never get to enjoy happiness in this life.

Just be yourself and pay no minds to whatsoever anybody thinks or has to say. Learn to offer yourself that unconditional love and you will feel what it means to be loved by someone else, because if you practiced and master love on yourself, anybody approaching you with a fake love, you will be able to identify and decline before they come any steps closer to you with their drama and deceit. In the end, whoever you end up finding love with will make you fall in love with yourself every single day, with the love on every other day growing stronger than the days past.

Stay beautiful as blessed.